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I never had sex w my ex (my only long-term relationship, AMAB) how tf do I tell someone “I’m down to try it but I ain’t putting shit near my mouth” LMAO is that like?? An odd opinion?? A dealbreaker?? It’s always depicted in media as necessary
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def not a deal breaker! I'm asexual so I have some weird boundaries and I was friends with my partner first so I had mentioned how I was willing to kiss ppl or do oral but didn't really like it and when we got together he immediately told me that we wouldn't kiss, I wouldn't give him blow jobs, or anything else I wasn't 100% into and we've been together for over a year and even though he likes both of those things he's stood firm by those boundaries

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