Anonymous OP 6w

Idk who else needs to hear this but this isn’t “culturally het” it’s just delusional and toxic behavior 😭

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Anonymous #1 6w

I think it is very much culturally straight to not take f/f relationships seriously bc it is not viewed as real sex, which is delusional

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Anonymous OP 6w

I don’t think it’s from a place of not taking f/f seriously. It could be, sure, but in any real life case of this it’s been from a sense of entitlement around expressing their sexuality. “It’s not cheating because I’m allowed to explore my sexuality!!!” This is an actual quote I’ve heard out in the world, btw. It’s a tool used to avoid accountability, a common technique for abusive partners to use. Which can happen in any type of relationship and we should never try to assign it to any one type

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Anonymous OP 6w

Like I’ve fr heard straight up DARBO techniques of “you’re just homophobic/biphobic for telling ME I’m not allowed to express my sexuality while in a relationship!” Or “it’s just sex! It’s not like I’m dating them too!” (common cheater excuse regardless of sexuality/gender/relationship type) but never once heard of them saying or using an excuse leading to f/f relationships not being considered serious

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Anonymous #1 6w

I know multiple people who don’t consider lesbian sex real sex bc there isn’t necessarily penetration. If you watch documentaries on lesbians from the 60s-80s you will regularly see people discuss this perception. They even have an ep of The L Word about it

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Anonymous #3 6w

Someone who identifies with an identity in the LGBT+ umbrella who holds beliefs that are inherently homophobic or transphobic. It’s not specific to bisexuals, you can have any LGBT identity and be culturally straight imo

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Anonymous #3 6w

Like I think it is culturally cishet when a trans person is shitty to other trans people about how well they can pass or when a gay guy is Republican and believes being effeminate is something to be ashamed of

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