First of all, that's laughably wrong and you've been influenced by propaganda. Secondly, when a cis person can’t tell if someone's trans, there is a nonzero chance that they will murder said trans person if they find out that the person's trans. There's a legal name for that. Your opinions on this are coming directly from the propaganda spread by people who think that cis people should genuinely be allowed to kill trans people for existing. You should rethink that position.
I said your words were disgusting, didn’t say anything about you. I have twisted nothing. You seem to be under the impression that your feelings, when told that you said smth wrong and disgusting, matter more than the respect owed to marginalized people. Another position you should reconsider.
Look up trans panic defense. There is a name for people who are so shocked and "betrayed" by someone being trans that they kill them. Please address the second thing I said to you. Do you disagree when I say trans women are born trans, or that being trans is unnatural, or that being trans is not a choice?