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LGBTQIA+ 15w
I live with my partner, and we look straight, but he’s polyamorous, demisexual, biromantic, and I’m queer, genderfluid, and polyamorous. How do we look more gay together for pride month? We wanna show up for our community and look safe
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Anonymous 15w

In reality, you probably won’t be hated on in real life by anyone in the community (can’t guarantee it won’t happen though), so you’re probably totally fine as you are! However, some pride merch/pins can’t hurt if you’re nervous.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15w

It’s less about wanting to avoid hatred, and more about wanting to make transphobes and homophobes uncomfortable. I look too straight and hateful people think I look like a safe place to say hateful things around. I want to switch the vibe from lululesbian to Femme Them Chaos

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

Ohhhhh I gotcha. Pins can still help, if you want a big change get a fun queer haircut/dye it, maybe a carabiner? Y’all could get funky with your makeup?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15w

I pinned this pride flag I found in the closet (unironically) onto my pants with pronoun pins, and wore a bunch of crystals and a slutty outfit that showed off my tattoos. I think I’m starting to look gay 🫶🤭

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