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LGBTQIA+ 1w
I find it very hard to find a boyfriend as a mlm ftm man…
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Anonymous 1w

I don’t necessarily have advice but I will say as a openly gay cis guy always feel like people will think im on chaser shit just because I prefer trans guys, hell the whole reason I came out was because of a good trans friend I had a crush on. Though I suppose for me it’s more fear of cis guys and meeting more trans guys that fit my niche dating wise

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Anonymous 1w

It could simply just be your approach to how you’re trying to date. ( specific dating apps, locations etc )

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Anonymous 1w

Thats odd bc in my experience men are most of who want me, though typically for questionable reasons

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Anonymous 1w

My husband and his dom have been happily in love for almost five years now, op. It might be hard, but it’s possible. I believe in you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

If I’m finding men it’s either gay men who don’t want me/want to be my friend instead or straight men who fetishize me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I find plenty of bi/pan men who seem decent. And the occasional respectful gay guy, tbh when it comes to gay guys who specifically seek me out they seem to be the most respectful. You just gotta put yourself out there and you’ll find the right one soon enough

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Anonymous replying to -> fairyxlore 1w

I’ve tried almost every dating app I could find and I keep coming up empty

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

I wish there was more guys like you around my area :(

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

I will also say for me cis is doing a lot of lifting, I may be nonbinary/transmasc but it’s hard to know if that’s because of that or what

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Im hoping there is more lgbtq people in my area in general 😭🙏 but I just turned 21 so we will figure that out if I can ever find a gay bar lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

I am 4-is months from turning 21 and I cannot wait to go to the gay bar Another issue I find is my disability :(

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