
i don’t even say this because i’m an intellectualist. i’m not in humanities. i’m an engineer for Christ’s sake. i just want people to wait until they have read a word about things they talk about before talking. none of this is new. trans men have an understanding of the patriarchy that cis men don’t. it’s true. that does not mean they don’t benefit from the patriarchy. we in the business call this a “dialectical statement.” two things that seem to be at odds are both true