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LGBTQIA+ 7w

so tired of men forcing themselves on to lesbians

LGBTQIA+ 7w

what's wrong with lesbians fucking men

Anonymous 7w

Im talking about the comments and im pretty sure this post is too, but im pretty sure ik the podcast the og post was talking about tho, and they pretty regularly have tone deaf takes on lesbians (I mean the two main hosts are bisexual so you’d hope they’d have lesbian friends but ig not) one clip I’ve seen they discuss what defines lesbianism and how fluidity comes into that without a lesbian in the room, they acknowledge that some lesbian are mad at that rhetoric that we can change but dont go

Anonymous 7w

yeah also that just fucking embarrassing😭😭

Anonymous 7w

i'm sorry?? you can dislike the post but maybe don't say "lesbians can have sex with men" means "men forcing themselves onto lesbians" ?????

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Anonymous

#3 7w

what even is your point??😐

Anonymous

#1 7w

you don't see how it's weird to say men are FORCING THEMSELVES onto lesbians? i don't give a shit about the discourse either way, but that's fucked up

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Anonymous

#3 7w

It means forcing themselves into our spaces think for one second pls

Anonymous

#4 7w

you are a moron. log off

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Anonymous

#3 7w

Men do force themselves on lesbians though, have you heard of ‘corrective’ rape? Its a named ‘fetish’ you can easily find looking for regular lesbian nsfw content, Its not weird for this to hit a nerve with some of us when some of us have been targeted by that kind of sexual violence, it gets watered down into the mainstream too, like drake’s “you say that you’re a lesbian girl me to” which sounds like one of the dudes in the comments is mocking, that and druski’s recent stud obsession..

Anonymous

#6 7w

Though these are usually conversations ive had with other lesbians and other queer women that have experienced this fetishizing to some level, but I’ve absolutely seen conversations about this started by other lesbians, its the driving force of a lot of the hate crimes we experience unfortunately

Anonymous

#6 7w

Seen convos online*

Anonymous

#6 7w

i know about corrective rape, that's part of why i feel its incredibly tone deaf to say men are "forcing themselves on to lesbians" about a post that says its fine if a lesbian has sex with a man. rape and sexual assault are disgusting, so why are we using that language here?

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Anonymous

#6 7w

i don't think non lesbians should try to infiltrate lesbian spaces, i don't think we should demonize lesbians for just being lesbians "wrong", and i think this post is poorly worded

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Anonymous

#6 7w

-Any deeper than that and only validate each other’s feelings in how they feel out of place being so fluid, also sorry this was a reply to #3 😭

Anonymous

#6 7w

Oh i think i found the clip the post is talking about, its a little worse than i expected, they start by talking about if you can choose to be lesbian while “fucking a guy a year” or wtvr, the host brings up a male friend they have that slept with a lesbian couple and made a comment about them going “dick crazy” so yeah i stand by what I said they’re absolutely playing into this, they called lesbians that don’t resonate with that “purists” bro

Anonymous

#6 7w

oh that's so bizarre what the hell actually

Anonymous

#3 7w

I posted it but yeah i was not prepared, like why are we being bioessentialist?? 😭

Anonymous

#3 7w

Ppl love using terribly inappropriate and uncalled for language to make their argument sound better. It’s weird af

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