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My roommate pretty clearly is homophobic, but says she’s bi. She thinks trans women invade women’s spaces, hates gay/bi men, and finds it an insult when someone thinks she’s a lesbian. She’s only slept with women honestly just fetishizes them. Help.
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Anonymous 1w

I doubt she’ll ever seriously date a woman bc she said it’s against her beliefs as a Christian to marry a woman and she doesn’t think it’s worth it to come out to her family unless she’s in a serious relationship. To me something is off. She’s the type to go out of her way to describe ppl as “gay” or “lesbian” in a stereotyping way even if the context is unnecessary. She’d try on a flannel and say she looks like a lesbian in an insulting way. How tf am I supposed to deal with this bullshit??

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Anonymous 1w

Kill her

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I do think she is bisexual and just has a lot of internalized homophobia, I’m sorry you have to deal with this. It’s not fair to you. Shes not being a good person and I’m sure people will try to defend this behavior bc she’s bisexual

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I’m trying really really hard to sympathize with her but it’s HARD when she spews so much hateful bs. Maybe she’s bisexual but I hate constantly hearing her going back and forth ab whether or not she thinks it’s even right to date a woman to my face as a lesbian. She outs me to every person she knows but gets upset when it happened to her (it wasnt me)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Oh I completely get it! I have had ppl in my life like this as well, luckily none of them were my roommate so I was able to avoid them easier. Being a lesbian is isolating and being outed to everyone can definitely be scary

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Oh!

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