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So im gay, but how do I know if im queer? A lot of people have a different definition for what it means to be queer, and what actions or traits dictate queerness, and it’s always been very confusing.
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Anonymous 7w

if you're in the lgbtq community you're queer! some people use it as an umbrella term and some use it bc they feel it is the label that best fits them (for example I know someone who is def not straight but doesn't fit neatly into any other label so that's what they use) personally I tell people I'm queer when talking about my sexuality bc explaining what aroace means is too much work sometimes lol

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Anonymous 7w

If you’re not straight or cis you’re queer. It can mean different things to different people but it is an umbrella term for all people in the lgbtq+ community.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Oh, I thought there was some sort of difference between being gay and being queer, like being gay is just sexuality and being queer is partaking in lgbtq culture or something like that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Queer is one of those terms that means a lot of different things to a lot of different people. I’m sure some people like to think of it as what you said, but I think most people agree that queer generally means “not cis/het”

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

I’m realizing that the first comment basically says all this. My reading comprehension is shit and I have added nothing to this conversation 😭😂 my bad

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Any input is good input. Unless it’s bad input. Thank you lol

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