Sex serves a dif purpose for me. I feel like heterosexuality has taught us that it’s so you can have an orgasm, but it’s more about a connection for me. Even if it’s a one night stand. And I almost never have an orgasm with a partner. I have a high sex drive, but not for other people in real life often. Different vibe maybe will still resonate

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i feel this way too, and i had sex with my ex a few times and it was fine but honestly it just felt like another way to feel close to her, and tbh i definitely preferred cuddling. i go back and forth on whether im ace and it’s kinda just a “if it’s something my partner wants, cool. if not, also cool”

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