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Am I a bad person for feeling jealous seeing queer people further along in their journeys being successful, specifically when it comes to sexual stuff? Esp trans people because I’m pre-HRT
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Anonymous 12w

Like I’ll see posts about trans people enjoying sex after they transitioned and I’m happy for them! But also so jealous and kinda bitter because I’ve never had that and it’ll be a long time before it even starts to be possible for me

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Anonymous 12w

I think you need to work through those feelings, not because it makes you a bad person, but because being jealous constantly hurts you :(

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Anonymous 12w

No, it’s perfect normal to feel a bit jealous, especially for pre-hrt people.

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Anonymous 12w

it’s not necessarily bad to be jealous, but you need to be able to work through those emotions and be able to prevent the jealousy from becoming hatred or self-hatred.

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