I’ve done some research but like… it’s just so hard to figure out how I feel when I’ve never had any form of romantic experience at all. I’m still telling myself that my feelings may change once I have that chance. I just always debate if I’m ace and looking in the wrong places or I’m honestly just lesbian but in denial, idk. 😭
I had romantic experiences and am completely aro, and I didn’t like most of it and only liked the stuff like hugging/cuddling. but that was enough that I thought I wasn’t aro. it can be very confusing even with experience so I imagine it’s even harder without. whatever you find out, I wish you luck :]