LGBTQIA+ on Yik Yak | okay need genuine advice. I have a big fat crush on my roommate. I know he’s gay too but I’m not sure if he likes me back. Should I even say anything? What should I do?

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LGBTQIA+ 14h

okay need genuine advice. I have a big fat crush on my roommate. I know he’s gay too but I’m not sure if he likes me back. Should I even say anything? What should I do?

Anonymous 14h

We LOVE open and honest communication while respecting boundaries. I say just approach with “btw, if you’d be down, I’d love to hang out or get a cup of coffee if you wanna get to know each other better! If not totally understand since we’re roommates and all. I just think you’re pretty cool so wanted to ask!” But also probably read up on relationships with roommates. That has potential to get uncomfy if things don’t go well, but just communicate and respect boundaries!

Anonymous 10h

DO NOT FUCK YOUR ROOMATE

Anonymous 14h

Sus him out

Anonymous

#2 13h

Yeah him and I are friends prior to these feelings weve know each other for over a year so I feel like that definitely changes what I’d do

Anonymous

OP 13h

“Hey so if you feel the same and wanna give it a go, would ya like to maybe go on a date or something? I know we’re roommates and have been friends for a while now, but I just think you’re really cool. If you don’t feel the same that’s totally fine I’m enjoying our friendship still.” But yeah either way communicate and respect each other I think y’all would be fine 💜

Anonymous

#3 10h

Also a valid take

Anonymous

#3 7h

I promise I’m not being a freak especially bc we live together and I feel so bad bc he’s unknowingly living with someone who wants more + he also hates it when people aren’t up front about how they feel about him regardless of what that may mean

Anonymous

#1 7h

How?