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i’m a bi woman, and i’ve exclusively dated women in the past, but i still feel so much shame talking about and actually having crushes on men. i feel like it makes me “not queer enough” or like i’m faking it or dirty or wrong.
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Anonymous 2w

like tbf not all of this is biphobia — it’s also part of being raised in purity culture and having my father threaten to stalk and/or harm any boy (not saying man bc i was a child when he was doing ts) who might like me and joking about arranging my marriage etc. — but i guess it’s just compounded by the fact people are very biphobic towards bi women. i feel like i’m seen as a sexual deviant by both straight and gay people and it hurts a lot. :(

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

log off twitter and tiktok babe no one gives af if you date a man as a woman in real life 💀 despite what jojo siwa and betty who might think, gay people aren’t gonna beat you up for being in a heterosexual relationship, most of them are in straight relationships themselves lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

…this is me venting about shit that i have heard and been told in real life, physical queer spaces. my entire IRL social circle is queer. i’m glad nobody has ever been weird to you about queer people in het seeming relationships but that isn’t my experience.

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