LGBTQIA+ on Yik Yak | Am I right to be upset with my friend for forcing me to out myself in front of her mom? (She made me come into room to say slur on her behalf, which forced me to come out to her mom, and then put me on the spot with awkward follow up questions)

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LGBTQIA+ 9w

Am I right to be upset with my friend for forcing me to out myself in front of her mom? (She made me come into room to say slur on her behalf, which forced me to come out to her mom, and then put me on the spot with awkward follow up questions)

Anonymous 9w

yes?? Wtf friends should NEVER do anything like this to you

Anonymous 9w

Calling someone to have them say a slur is crazy 💀

Anonymous 9w

This was her third strike too about pushing my boundaries of what her mom knows. 1st was her mom making awkward jokes about me smoking weed (when I NEVER wanted her knowing that or even knew she was told that). 2nd strike was at her birthday party, her mom made a comment about my abusive ex bf being horrible (which I also didn’t want her know anything about???) (I left the party and cried)

Anonymous 8w

oh no she’s horrible, obviously super immature does not think abt the consequences of her actions does not think through other ppl’s perspectives/feelings. She has a responsibility to be better if she wants to have any gd friends, leave her yesterdsy

Anonymous

#1 9w

okay I felt like I was going crazy. she’s been wanting to catch up, but I don’t trust her or feel comfortable after the last time I saw her. she’s clueless how hurt I am. she also just completely ignored me texting her one day asking for help w something when anxious (but she is always texting ppl)🫠

Anonymous

#1 9w

i’m also scared if I bring it up, she won’t see the problem bc it’s “just her mom”, but her mom TALKS TO MY MOM!! who I am not close with at allllll, and they know that.

Anonymous

#2 9w

Yeah right!? Like I had to say the f-slur combined with “accent” for my friend to describe how someone talked. Then ofc her mom was like “Wait why can only she say it? She’s not gay?” and I had my back to them bc I was so red, embarrassed, and uncomfortable. My friend did a great awkward pause to make me out myself, prolly made a face too. All I could get out was “not fully”, bc I couldn’t even say the words “i’m bi”, I wanted to cry

Anonymous

OP 9w

yeah that’s messed up, all of these should be pretty obvious no nos, especially if it brought you to tears the last time she pulled something like this. that’s not ok.