wait it’s also annoying when people think I’m a prude bc I’m a virgin/not comfortable hooking up with people 😭 like I just wanna save my first times for a guy I trust and love a lot :)
I hate how sexualized mlm relationships are both irl and in media. God forbid a man has a low sex drive and just wants to hold hands. Yet I’ve encountered some people who act like if I’m not super sexually active then I’m not being gay correctly
I’m the OP of the original post and I’m the same way! I’m saving my first time for a man I love, and if that keeps me a virgin until I’m thirty then so be it
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Anonymous#15h
I agree with like 90% of this. I don’t want to be a virgin till 30 bc I am still incredibly horny BUT I also think we need to collectively move past the notion that gay men (esp those who are fem or bottoms) “expire” at 30