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wait it’s also annoying when people think I’m a prude bc I’m a virgin/not comfortable hooking up with people 😭 like I just wanna save my first times for a guy I trust and love a lot :)
I hate how sexualized mlm relationships are both irl and in media. God forbid a man has a low sex drive and just wants to hold hands. Yet I’ve encountered some people who act like if I’m not super sexually active then I’m not being gay correctly
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Anonymous 1d

I’m the OP of the original post and I’m the same way! I’m saving my first time for a man I love, and if that keeps me a virgin until I’m thirty then so be it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5h

I agree with like 90% of this. I don’t want to be a virgin till 30 bc I am still incredibly horny BUT I also think we need to collectively move past the notion that gay men (esp those who are fem or bottoms) “expire” at 30

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