Anonymous OP 1d

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Anonymous #1 1d

He texted literally one second after I posted this

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Anonymous OP 1d

i wouldn’t be happy if he kept coming online but didn’t respond for 8 hours bc he clearly saw he had a message but ignored it

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Anonymous #2 1d

maybe he was thinking abt how to answer for a while? I would’ve told OP to give me time to get my thoughts together, but ik that might make some people MORE anxious so idk 😭

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Anonymous #2 1d

the last few times I confessed crushes, I told them they could take a bit to answer, but to let me know in a day or two or I’d assume it was a “no.” helps with the anxiety on both ends ime

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Anonymous #3 1d

if it’s needing time that should be communicated. it just causes unnecessary stress otherwise. i say this as someone with intense social anxiety disorder

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Anonymous #2 1d

I had someone else with an anxiety disorder tell me it sounded extremely stressful to be told they wouldn’t get a response for hours/a day, which is why I said it was different for everyone

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Anonymous #4 1d

Update is he was sleeping 😛 also things are going pretty well and I think it will lead to the gay relationship of my dreams, also realized I have an anxious attachment style and am working on it very hard

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Anonymous OP 1d

YAYYY CONGRATS

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Anonymous #4 1d

Thank you! This attachment style has fucked me up in the past so I’m trying very hard to be self aware and focus on myself when I’m getting anxious cause I do NOT want it to fuck up this one 💀

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