You know what. No I am. And let’s tell the real story. They were being transphobic. I’m so sorry but if you’re transphobic as a trans person don’t expect your identity to respected. And I called them girl in a gender neutral way one time and their entire world view came crashing down. That’s not my fault and even if it was I don’t feel bad about it
So someone’s transphobic for saying they’d respect the identities of people when they’re told they’re a lesbian and trans man?? And not policing that? Also in a space with a lot of trans people you should know that calling someone girl won’t be respected. And the way you look down on bi women who get with men is really weird too
And if you wanted to keep this conversation going you should’ve convinced OP to not block me but oh well. I don’t really have much else to say, trans men are not women or lesbians and I will not validate transphobia, even against oneself. Have the month you deserve! (You’re getting blocked)
Good for you! I never said bi or pan women can’t date men, I said it’s disappointing when it’s all the bi representation we get, along with “bi women are cheaters”. God forbid a girl is tired of seeing bi women pop out married to a man. God forbid a girl just wants to see a bi woman married to a woman every now and then 💔
It’s creepy how you treat actual, real bi women as fictional characters you want and demand representation from. Go marry a woman yourself and let other bisexual women marry whoever they want to. God forbid a man wants people to love who they want. God forbid a man just wants to see people happy every now and then 💔
Also, as a man, why do you think YOU get to dictate bi-ness and what should or shouldn’t be represented? Especially when it comes to bi women in the media? Is that also not you treating women as fictional characters who you can demand representation from? It’s just the other way around
No bc I was calling out the people on the pic and the comments who are shaming her for kissing a man which is what you’re doing. I’d like for everyone to just celebrate that she seems happy, no matter who she’s with. I’d like for us as a community to uplift all its members for who they are and what they identify as. I love seeing women be with women and men be with men and men and women being together and non binary people being with cis people or other non binary people, etc. etc.
I’m literally not shaming her? Once again, I’ve said that bi women should NOT be shamed for dating or kissing or fucking or marrying men. It’s just all we ever see in the media, it’s all that’s expected of bi women at this point. And of course you’re not gonna have a problem with it, you’re not a woman. You are being represented here (sort of). Bi women dating men benefits you. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with wanting more representation and being upset when we get soooo close to have it be
I do respect my identity. It's mine. I know what words describe it better than u do. Humans are more than words, and I'm sorry you're too small minded and self absorbed to realize that. I hope one day soon you look at urself and see how awful you are and change. Or not, continue to be a miserable dickhead if u want
2 things from readings ur comments and being both bi and trans (not a man): a) i dont want your pity if im dating a man. my relationship is queer even if im with a man, ur ‘disappointment’ is fucking weird and gross, ACTUALLY grow up. the whole point of being bisexual is the spectrum im able to love across. being happy with a man is not an erasure of that. b) and to your weird trans comments, it is NEVER okay to misgender someone just because you don’t respect them. you’re basically saying that-
-you don’t ACTUALLY view trans people as their gender, it’s completely conditional on if they happen to please you. u r weird and chronically online, please get off the internet and go to pride and talk to irl ppl PLEASE. read a queer history book. like u need it so so desperately.