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TW: biphobia. Saw this on twitter, I don’t follow this person and it’s the first thing I see when I open the app. Why do people forget what bisexual means? Bi women are valid when they date men and valid when they date women. Another pic in comments.
52 upvotes, 77 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in LGBTQIA+. "TW: biphobia. Saw this on twitter, I don’t follow this person and it’s the first thing I see when I open the app. Why do people forget what bisexual means? Bi women are valid when they date men and valid when they date women. Another pic in comments."
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Anonymous 14w

“I guess being able to date men and women is cool until it’s time to date women because I think ur only queer if you date the same gender and I have a weird personal preference for your relationships”

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Anonymous 14w
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Anonymous 14w

#2 can’t deal with facts and blocked me 💀

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Anonymous 14w

#2 blocked me ig, so i win she loses 🥰

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Anonymous 14w

This is so off topic but I’m so happy for them!! I saw a Nat Wolff project recently and loved his acting. Hope those two have a great pride ❤️

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Anonymous 14w

I agree but I also feel like people are tired of seeing bi-ness represented as man and woman. I rarely see any bi or pan person date or end up married to the same gender and it really grinds my gears as a woman (I hate men and they don’t deserve these pretty queer women)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

Ok sure but these aren’t characters or fictional people. She’s a real person and can date whoever she pleases. I’d also like to see more bisexual rep in storylines where they end up with the same gender tho

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

And that’s completely valid! It just sucks when bi women end up married to men. It’s like “oh…we lost another one to a mediocre white man….” 💔

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

But it’s really not that deep for them to be mad about it 😭😭😭 disappointed? Yes. Angry and hating? Hell no

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

So you’re disappointed when bi women are happy and in a healthy relationship with a man. Yikes.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Yes I am. Since when was that a crime?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

Aren’t you that freak that misgendered trans lesbians when they were upset about derogatory terms being used against them?

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Anonymous 14w

Hmm… when I block them… your comment goes away

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

You know what. No I am. And let’s tell the real story. They were being transphobic. I’m so sorry but if you’re transphobic as a trans person don’t expect your identity to respected. And I called them girl in a gender neutral way one time and their entire world view came crashing down. That’s not my fault and even if it was I don’t feel bad about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

“We lost another one to a mediocre man” is a biphobic statement pls consider changing your outlook on strangers’ relationships

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

If you blocked me you wouldn’t be able to see my comment now genius 💀💀💀💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

It’s not just for one post

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

But you can be biphobic as a bi person? Then by your own standards, your identity shouldn’t be respected. But I’m not an asshole so I won’t be doing that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

So someone’s transphobic for saying they’d respect the identities of people when they’re told they’re a lesbian and trans man?? And not policing that? Also in a space with a lot of trans people you should know that calling someone girl won’t be respected. And the way you look down on bi women who get with men is really weird too

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

Genius I unblocked you. How stupid are you 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

I’ll correct you since you still want to play victim, they are transphobic for saying that because a trans man was a woman they get to use labels that exclude men. Trans men are not women, then cannot be lesbians. It’s really that simple

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

And if you wanted to keep this conversation going you should’ve convinced OP to not block me but oh well. I don’t really have much else to say, trans men are not women or lesbians and I will not validate transphobia, even against oneself. Have the month you deserve! (You’re getting blocked)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

Why is it transphobic to listen to people when they talk about their identities and not police that? Why do you care so much about other people’s identities and lives?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

When did I ever say you can’t? And someone’s sexuality not being respected is a lot less serious than someone’s gender identity being disrespected, especially when the government is literally at war with the rights of these people?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

Also who’s surprised that the transphobic lesbophobe who misgenders trans lesbians and says carpet muncher isn’t derogatory is also biphobic and feels like dating men is a flaw for bi women

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

Babes I’m literally a trans man but I’ve been holding off on saying that bc you clearly hate men and are disappointed in bi women who date and marry men

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Good for you! I never said bi or pan women can’t date men, I said it’s disappointing when it’s all the bi representation we get, along with “bi women are cheaters”. God forbid a girl is tired of seeing bi women pop out married to a man. God forbid a girl just wants to see a bi woman married to a woman every now and then 💔

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Also you asked why people forgot what bisexual means, I just gave you one possible outcome. I never said kill all men or bi women never date men, it’s just the same old tune now.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

It’s creepy how you treat actual, real bi women as fictional characters you want and demand representation from. Go marry a woman yourself and let other bisexual women marry whoever they want to. God forbid a man wants people to love who they want. God forbid a man just wants to see people happy every now and then 💔

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

That question was rhetorical

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Literally when did I say that? God men are so horrible. Why is everything about you? Like I said, you can date whoever you want but it’s tireddddddd. You don’t have to be the first choice all the time oh my godddd

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Well, now you have an answer ❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

Lmao it’s your sub text that says that. It’s weird that you think this way, that it’s tired and overdone for bi women to get with men. Bc normally when people say date whoever you want, it doesn’t come with a big dose of disappointment and shaming them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Also, as a man, why do you think YOU get to dictate bi-ness and what should or shouldn’t be represented? Especially when it comes to bi women in the media? Is that also not you treating women as fictional characters who you can demand representation from? It’s just the other way around

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

And I’ve already said they shouldn’t be shamed or hated. God forbid men in 2025 are disappointing 😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

No bc I was calling out the people on the pic and the comments who are shaming her for kissing a man which is what you’re doing. I’d like for everyone to just celebrate that she seems happy, no matter who she’s with. I’d like for us as a community to uplift all its members for who they are and what they identify as. I love seeing women be with women and men be with men and men and women being together and non binary people being with cis people or other non binary people, etc. etc.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

Lmao she’s still going on a rampage and now hates me even more for having the audacity to be a man commenting on bisexual women

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

I’m literally not shaming her? Once again, I’ve said that bi women should NOT be shamed for dating or kissing or fucking or marrying men. It’s just all we ever see in the media, it’s all that’s expected of bi women at this point. And of course you’re not gonna have a problem with it, you’re not a woman. You are being represented here (sort of). Bi women dating men benefits you. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with wanting more representation and being upset when we get soooo close to have it be

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

The same cliche over and over again. Again, no one should shame when this happens but I think it’s ok to be disappointed. You can be happy that she’s happy and still disappointed about the grand scheme of things.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

bro's disappointed when a bi woman is bi instead of a lesbian

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

So you're saying your allyship to trans ppl has a limit. You're saying you're not an actual ally. Thx for letting us know.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

I'm a lesbian and a trans man. I chose both of those labels bc they best describe me, and ik my identity better than some biphobic freak on yikyak .

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

so much to say, yet sooo much ignorance.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

Yeah because that’s totally what I said! Jump

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

If that’s how you feel please feel it! I really don’t care!

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

If you don’t respect your identity why should I?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

It is!! I will right after you, go ahead.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

And yet here you are. Again. and again. and again. So much for not caring..

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

When did I say I didn’t care? I hate men yall are gross. Yall love to invade spaces and funk up the place.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

I do respect my identity. It's mine. I know what words describe it better than u do. Humans are more than words, and I'm sorry you're too small minded and self absorbed to realize that. I hope one day soon you look at urself and see how awful you are and change. Or not, continue to be a miserable dickhead if u want

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

So you want to claim a label that is exclusionary to men? While claiming you’re a man? What sense does that make

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

Are you stupid on purpose or like, is this natural?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

I don’t care about how you feel about my ally ship, not in general!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

ur worse than ill ever be 🥰

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

Answer my question

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

I was beat too it but here it is again

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

And yet you still responded. Like I said. Ur proof anyone can get into college

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

To*

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

Ask one

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

How are you claiming to be a man when trying to use a label that excludes men?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

Because my identity is complicated because I am a human being so ofc sometimes the words I use dont make sense to close minded little girls barely out of high school.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

Aka you don’t think of yourself as a man so why are you calling yourself a trans MAN when trans masc is right there? And you’re trying to insult MY intelligence? 💀💀💀💀💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

Men can never be lesbians I’m so sorry for your loss!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

Not what my lesbian lover told me last night after we went to a pride parade with the lesbian flag and then had lesbian sex. Looks like ur the one losing here buddy.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

Why are you speaking on trans matters anyway? It’s super complex and personal for each trans person. He/him lesbians exist babe.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

It’s kinda funny how she hasn’t blocked me like she’s delusionalllllllll

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Why are yall trying to speak on women’s issues? He/him lesbians are not valid and trans men definitely are not the arbiters of anything lesbian or bi…..

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

way past delusional, delusional doesnt even cover it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

But you clearly want to be involved in everything since you lack something, I hope you find it dear.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

Ayyyyy she finally blocked me!! Good riddance. I hope she lives a cold and lonely life

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

ayy congrats!! no hope needed, its a guarantee she will with that personality

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

Lmao I hope she never speaks to another man again and I hope she leaves other bisexual women alone since she can’t handle that bi means attraction to multiple genders (including the big bad Evil sometimes white men)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

2 things from readings ur comments and being both bi and trans (not a man): a) i dont want your pity if im dating a man. my relationship is queer even if im with a man, ur ‘disappointment’ is fucking weird and gross, ACTUALLY grow up. the whole point of being bisexual is the spectrum im able to love across. being happy with a man is not an erasure of that. b) and to your weird trans comments, it is NEVER okay to misgender someone just because you don’t respect them. you’re basically saying that-

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

-you don’t ACTUALLY view trans people as their gender, it’s completely conditional on if they happen to please you. u r weird and chronically online, please get off the internet and go to pride and talk to irl ppl PLEASE. read a queer history book. like u need it so so desperately.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

Y’all were so obsessed it’s funny 😍😍 get blocked again hoe!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Your opinion is not a fact 🤭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

You had no one in bed with you hun

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