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Does it make me an enbie if I keep myself deliberately androgynous and don’t mind if I get called a girl at work (and kinda prefer it, better tips from guys), but I prefer he or they more? Is this common among AMABs?
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Anonymous 9w

There’s no right way to be nb. Like personally I prefer being fem at work, masc online and neutral everywhere else, nothing wrong with switching it up

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Anonymous 9w

up to you. if you want to label it, you could use nonbinary and/or gender non-conforming, but you don’t have to.

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Anonymous 9w

idk all i know is , when im moving to portland im switching my she/her to at least add a they. not yet tho , already get theyd way enough 😒

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Anonymous 9w

im an amab nb and im similar. very adro presenting but any pronouns are fine for me. im dudebro but also babygirl :) both have their place

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

I just like being whatever I want whenever I want. I want to be feminine? I want my nails done, my leggings on, a shirt twisted to exaggerate my figure, mt back curved more to project my nonexistent breasts… when I want to be masculine, though… I like baggy clothes, kinda messy hair and nails, not shaven at all, I widen my shoulders and narrow my legs, etc., a lot of it is subconscious, too. I mostly just love cishet men flirting with, and shelling out money to, a femboy

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

I have refused labels generally

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

then dont worry abt it, simple as that

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