LGBTQIA+ on Yik Yak | I want to tell a fling(idk what we are) that I rather be friends cause we haven’t been clicking that way, but I’m afraid she’s gonna think I’m not interested cause she’s trans. Which is not the case at all but I’m so bad at wording things

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LGBTQIA+ 3w

I want to tell a fling(idk what we are) that I rather be friends cause we haven’t been clicking that way, but I’m afraid she’s gonna think I’m not interested cause she’s trans. Which is not the case at all but I’m so bad at wording things

Anonymous 3w

I mean just tell her how you feel. I would hope she wouldn’t assume or jump to conclusions that it’s because she’s transgender

Anonymous 3w

Like we went on a date, hooked up, and said we were “entertaining the idea of dating” without actually doing anything. That and neither of us don’t think I can give her a relationship she wants (to be pampered) while I’m a full time college student figuring out my own stuff. In that meantime I’ve been chatting with other ppl and have rlly clicked with this one person and see myself in a relationship with them

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OP 3w

Okay so I sent out the message just saying how we didn’t romantically click and I’m not interested in being fwbs (god knows my ruined perception of intimacy doesn’t need anything casual rn even if I wasn’t talking to that other person). I just feel so guilty at the thought of disappointing someone, but it’s not fair to the other person or her to keep it to myself. Might as well rip off the bandage and communicate like an adult 🥲