LGBTQIA+ on Yik Yak | so i’m bi, i find certain dudes attractive, but i would never date one and they usually irritate me when they show interest. i hate intimacy with them but it sounds cool in theory. on that note, i have huge fomo since most of my friends have boyfriends.

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LGBTQIA+ 1d

so i’m bi, i find certain dudes attractive, but i would never date one and they usually irritate me when they show interest. i hate intimacy with them but it sounds cool in theory. on that note, i have huge fomo since most of my friends have boyfriends.

Anonymous 1d

What is your version of attraction? Cuz i can look at a man and say he is aesthetically pleasing (ie attractive) but i feel no attraction to him romantic or sexual as a lesbian

Anonymous 1d

You might just be a lesbian

Anonymous 1d

Maybe you are sexually attracted to men but romantically attracted to just women?

Anonymous 23h

sounds like comphet. at the very least you could be bisexual and homoromantic (assuming you identify as a woman)

Anonymous 20h

I don’t like to tell people their identity, but I am telling you yours. You’re a lesbian. This is the most lesbian post I’ve ever read.

Anonymous

#2 1d

like seeing a male celebrity/idol and being like “DAYUM I NEED DAT.” to me it’s all fun and being silly, but then i wonder if i could actually tolerate a man or if he’s better off like a pet rather than a romantic partner. personally, i’ve had a few experiences where i felt emotionally connected to a man, but it dwindled quickly and then i got bored

Anonymous

#3 1d

is that what it is..? 😰

Anonymous

OP 1d

WHO TF IS DOWNVOTING MY OWN EXPERIENCES?? GIRL WHAT

Anonymous

OP 1d

“I wonder if I could actually tolerate a man or if he’s better of like a pet” is probably the agitator

Anonymous

#4 1d

not like in the weird way.. y’all just be assuming stuff without context. “as a pet” was meant in the way that you see something cute and are like “aww” but they’re just kinda there. idk how else to describe it, okay?

Anonymous

OP 1d

I think thats called a friendship bestie, but idk. If you ever have actually felt attracted to a man i think may sapphic would be a better descriptor for you? But i thought genuinely i had been attracted to men before as a lesbian but i realized later it was a desire to be desirable being fulfilled not an actual attraction if that makes sense

Anonymous

#2 1d

i definitely think that the adrenaline of “fitting in” with my friends has contributed to my perception of my relationships with men. i constantly feel like i need to prove stuff, so i tend to do intense things really fast (only to regret it later). one example: dating a guy after 3 days of knowing him. another example: sleeping with guys the same day i meet them. the list goes on.

Anonymous

#5 23h

it’s possible, but in practice, my body gets all numb and intimacy isn’t enjoyable. which is why i said it sounds cool in theory.

Anonymous

OP 23h

guys, if anyone is actually offended by my experiences, just ignore me. i promise the world won’t end if you don’t pay attention to me by downvoting. maybe my wording is off, but my feelings don’t affect anyone but me on here.

Anonymous

#6 23h

genderfluid, but i lean more feminine

Anonymous

#7 19h

UR FINE I THINK IT’S FUNNY THAT UR CLOCKING ME 😭