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Is it common for parents and siblings to hate you after coming out as trans. I’m hurting so much . Even a couple lifelong friends took their side and it feels devastating.
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Anonymous 6w

It feels devastating but it’s honestly what u have to do. You need a community of ppl who love n respect u as you are. I came out to my brother n no longer am in contact with him. It hurts, it sucks, but I’ve realize I no longer have a sibling and that it wasn’t my fault.

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Anonymous 6w

I’m so sorry you had to go through this💔💔💔

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Anonymous 6w

I basically said fuck all of them and cut all of them off after being out for a year. To them I’m such a villain but i just want to get them out of my life. Is that bad?

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Anonymous 6w

Yeah :( cut them off. I’m glad you did. Your the villain in their eyes but you can finally live freely

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Anonymous 5w

i'm so sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Also genuinly I can’t imagine seeing my child as a villain for being trans. I can’t imagine rather having no child than a trans child.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

I hate that you had to go through that. If you want a new sibling you can be mine

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

yeah i really appreciate it. the mix of feelings is so overwhelming i wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

and yeah it’s so crazy. they’ve told me a few times “we don’t want (my name) we want (my deadname)”. their love for me is so conditional

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I’d love that🕺🕺

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