Me trying to explain how trans men becoming more excluded in queer spaces the more they pass by their own community isn’t actually misogyny and we need to look introspectively on what behaviors we allow in our community and biases we still hold and hide under the guise of “inclusivity paradox”. No fam this isn’t the paradox you just hate men AND trans men to the point you’re excluding lovely people and allies from our spaces bc you support gender essentialism and are chronically online

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I’ve had multiple people in this group try to shame me for my sexuality (or lack of one), like I thought we were all about accepting differences and not forcing people to do things they don’t want to do

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The way people justify blatant homophobia and brush it off by saying “well gay men are still men”

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Justifying discrimination against trans men isn’t “so woke they end up repeating right-wing/repressive rhetoric,” it’s just “right-wing/regressive rhetoric.” You’ve just added an unnecessary middleman there. And I think there’s a clear difference between a queer person complaining about The Cishets and a cishet person complaining about The Queers, additionally I think it’s wild that I have to point that out.

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