Anonymous #4 19h

it’s almost like…. invalidating identities and policing labels can.. hurt actual people?? no that’s impossible

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Anonymous #1 18h

🤯 that one OP (the one who posted the post this ones quoting) when they find out people can have contradicting identities and still be valid

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Anonymous #5 18h

you’re not going to magically stop trans men lesbians from existing by posting this btw

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Anonymous #5 18h

why do you care

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Anonymous #4 18h

You’re not gonna magically change what the term *trans MAN* and the what the term *Lesbian* means by using them oxymoronically

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Anonymous #1 18h

Words have meaning and people have fought hard for these labels and these communities to mean something the moment we start trying to bend set in stone boxes them those words lose their meaning and importance. If a label needs to bend to adhere to you maybe it’s not a label for you and that’s fine but find the one that fits don’t try to bend and entire community to try to fit your needs. Queerness is a beautiful spectrum and there is a place for everybody. But certain labels have meanings

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Anonymous #5 18h

womp womp, cope harder

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Anonymous #5 18h

Cool, you don’t police other people’s lived experiences. Trans men can be lesbians and many are. Cope.

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Anonymous #6 18h

Too bad, many are. Get over it.

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Anonymous OP 18h

Cool and trans men literally can’t be lesbians cry about it 🤷🏽‍♀️

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Anonymous #4 18h

Dude couldn’t understand the word oxymoronic so they responded with womp womp.

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Anonymous #5 18h

“i don’t know lesbian history” are the only words ive been hearing from you.

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Anonymous #5 18h

Cool, you don’t dictate that, get over it and keep coping.

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Anonymous OP 18h

Cool words have meaning keep being an incell 🙏🏽

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Anonymous #4 18h

“I don’t know that most trans men only were called lesbians because society wouldnt actually ever accept them as men, and a lot of trans men would identify as lesbians because it was the lesser of two evils” I have my masters in history get offline and read a book

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Anonymous #5 18h

womp womp. again cope harder 🤷

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Anonymous #4 17h

it’s 2026, be respectful with terms and stop implementing men where we shouldn’t be. ESPECIALLY in women’s spaces

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Anonymous #8 17h

Or just quit being a transphobic, lesbophobic arse and save us all the trouble.

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Anonymous #5 17h

Clearly you’ve done very little with that degree and should actually listen to the people you’re trying to shit on who actually know more about their community than you do.

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Anonymous #8 17h

And it’s also okay for them to be lesbian, too.

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Anonymous #7 17h

They do, and yet identities are not policed by others because that’s a shitty thing to do.

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Anonymous #2 16h

exactly. you don’t need to understand something in order to respect it

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Anonymous #2 15h

I identify as agender and still call myself gay. Do I only like other agender ppl? No, I like men. Am I a man? Nope. I’m aware it doesn’t make sense, but that’s just what I prefer

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Anonymous #10 15h

Yeah like I’m a gay man. I identify with the sex I was born as but just feel like it doesn’t matter, like even including conceptually. Therefore if there were someone who I assumed was a man, I would feel sexually and possibly romantically attracted to them. That person could be nonbinary and I still would find them attractive and respect their identity at the same time

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Anonymous #11 14h

it depends on the trans man, how they want to identify. it goes on how gender and sexuality is a spectrum. also the lgbtq community as a whole doesn’t go with societal expectations. there’s a history of lesbians and trans men. identity doesn’t have to make sense. identities can contradict each other as we are people and everyone is different.

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Anonymous #8 14h

And sometimes trans men aren’t straight and they identify themselves as lesbians and that’s okay too!

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Anonymous #11 14h

As #4 said, it’s very complicated and there is a lot of history that goes into it. Transmasc folks often have very, very strong ties to the lesbian community and have their roots established there.

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Anonymous #4 14h

ohh ok perf! thanks for explaining

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Anonymous #11 13h

what about the lesbians who feel uncomfortable there’s men in their community now? we have to just let men invade a women’s space just bc it fits them better even tho it’s making people uncomfortable and an incorrect label? this is like saying even tho i’m a trans woman i can say im cis because that fits me better personally like huh that’s not how it works

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Anonymous #7 13h

Congrats on not understanding things!

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Anonymous OP 13h

so this didn’t explain anything. yall just wanna be rig hot but can’t backup ur point for real lesbians who are uncomfortable

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Anonymous #7 13h

Hey what do you mean by real lesbians

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Anonymous #7 13h

You mean the three lesbian TERFs and then ignorant arses like you?

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Anonymous #12 13h

lesbians that are non men only

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Anonymous OP 13h

still didn’t explain? that’s not being a terf that’s trying to have a space that’s non men bc that’s who they are attracted to

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Anonymous #7 13h

You can pretend trans men lesbians don’t exist but they do. Grow up and get over it.

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Anonymous #11 12h

you’re welcome, i’m happy to explain things! :D

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Anonymous #13 6h

Not backwards at all. It’s self-determinism and empowerment. You’re wrong about lesbian presentation being non-masc, too— many cis lesbians are also masc.

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