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LGBTQIA+ 1w
I need help. I am a straight passing guy and my type is also very straight passing guys. Naturally I keep falling for ACTUAL straight guys. Idk how to find a bf. I js want a masc4masc relationship. I fear the men I want wouldn’t be found at 🏳️‍🌈 events
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Anonymous 1w

“I fear the men I want wouldn’t be found at 🏳️‍🌈 events” isn’t reality-based, that’s nothing more than plain & simple stereotyping. you need to work on unlearning regressive attitudes towards other gay men before you go actively pursuing a relationship

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Anonymous 1w

update gaydar and there are plenty of masc gay men just go to queer events if you want to or use dating apps or whatever

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

this is so dramatic

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

so is OP’s internalized homophobia 👍

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

dawg be so fr. if they live anywhere slightly rural or red then the demographic of people who feel comfortable going to pride events does not have a ton if what they are looking for. they truly dont say anything negative about anyone so i dont see how they are SO regressive

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