No I literally was like “here’s the guy I’m seeing” and they were like “you have a very interesting type”. and I was like “um you think he’s ugly?” and they were like “yes” and then proceeded to get mad when I said that it makes sense they wouldn’t find him attractive bc they are gay. and they were like “well I find Pedro pascal attractive” as a gotcha.
idk i find sometimes with lesbian friends even if they ask about it they just don’t want to hear about men or attraction to them, which is fine but don’t ask?? and also i will be upset if you call my partner ugly no matter what they are because i didn’t ask and it’s rude. especialllyyyy when they have a partner who isn’t conventionally attractive either but is considered attractive in a niche gay way like girl you have no room to talk bye