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friend implied I was being shitty bc when she told me the guy I am dating is ugly I said that i understand that she doesn’t find him attractive bc she’s a lesbian. Like im not a lesbian I am bi, but like. I don’t think that was homophobic to say at ALL
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Anonymous 1w

it doesnt matter if she's attracted to him or not calling someone ugly is horrible

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Anonymous 1w

Did you ask for her opinion on the guy? Bc as a lesbian I often get told to comment my opinion on the guy and if I say he’s attractive I get oh so you are actually bi and if I tell the truth I get told well you just don’t get it bc you are a lesbian

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

No I literally was like “here’s the guy I’m seeing” and they were like “you have a very interesting type”. and I was like “um you think he’s ugly?” and they were like “yes” and then proceeded to get mad when I said that it makes sense they wouldn’t find him attractive bc they are gay. and they were like “well I find Pedro pascal attractive” as a gotcha.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Also how did you say lesbian? Bc I have noticed a lot of time in this situation the person will say lesbian like how they will say a slur

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

no I didn’t say it like that I was like “to be fair you’re a lesbian” in response. Not as a negative thing either 😭 just like a “I mean it makes sense you probably wouldn’t find most if any men attractive, even just from an aesthetic standpoint” way

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

just bc she’s a lesbian doesn’t mean that she cant see when a guy is good looking 🤷🏼 some dudes are just ugly and that’s ok bc ugly ppl deserve love too #lovewins

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

idk i find sometimes with lesbian friends even if they ask about it they just don’t want to hear about men or attraction to them, which is fine but don’t ask?? and also i will be upset if you call my partner ugly no matter what they are because i didn’t ask and it’s rude. especialllyyyy when they have a partner who isn’t conventionally attractive either but is considered attractive in a niche gay way like girl you have no room to talk bye

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

also the way everyone in the thread was trying to look for ways you were the one in the wrong like this isn’t just a weird thing to say 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

No yeah you’re completely right

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