Anonymous #1 16w

I gained weight from SSRI meds and testeosterone, so very much helped me

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Anonymous OP 16w

same, lexapro made me gain sm weight, changed my birth control and stopped dancing so a lot of factors and ppl still wanna make comments. lik if we’re happy in our bodies why do u care

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Anonymous #2 16w

EXACTLY. lik when i was skinny i was getting migraines and throwing up bc of them constantly

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Anonymous #2 16w

Lowkey I’m not healthy but I never was. I’m trying to get better

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Anonymous OP 16w

good luck bb 🫶

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Anonymous #3 16w

My GOAT old navy

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Anonymous OP 16w

yess love it!

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Anonymous #6 16w

I’ve been wearing more just normal mens clothes and I’m obsessed with myself now it’s hilarious how not being dysphoric makes me so happy

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Anonymous OP 16w

old navy is the best!!!

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Anonymous #8 16w

I’m trying. I’m not healthy now and never have been, but want to start working on endurance and lifting weights

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Anonymous #9 16w

Why are you saying yikes when someone else loves themself

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Anonymous OP 16w

That’s great! I was not happy for being skinny before but as soon as I started to go to gym regularly there was changes. I think this way is healthier than gaining weight from drugs, just saying

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Anonymous #8 16w

I didn’t purposely gain weight. I gained weight while trying to not off myself, just saying

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Anonymous OP 16w

To me anything you gain without effort is unhealthy. Idk why u equal working out with offing yourself😭u sound really insecure, and going to the gym can fix that

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Anonymous #8 16w

I GAINED WEIGHT FROM MEDS TO MAKE ME NOT OFF MYSELF. I am not insecure, I like my body now more than ever.

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Anonymous #8 16w

did u even read that- they were depressed so therefore not worried abt their weight…

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Anonymous #8 16w

what a super weird thing to say

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Anonymous OP 16w

Ohh😭ok, still sounds insecure tho, maybe I phrased it bad but I said that with all my love

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Anonymous #8 16w

also u do realize gaining weight without effort is sometimes the only way ppl can gain weight…….. sometimes the more ppl think and put into it sometimes it doesn’t work

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Anonymous #8 16w

How is it insecure to not want to kill myself??

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Anonymous OP 16w

It’s insecure to be aggressive when I’m just sharing my experience…

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Anonymous OP 16w

In an aggressive way. Repeating my words and downvoting me.

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Anonymous #8 16w

Because you insulted me??

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Anonymous OP 16w

Which one did you take as an insult, I’m so curious

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Anonymous #8 16w

You imply I’m not healthy and that I purposefully gained weight from drugs. I corrected you and you insulted me again by calling me insecure

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Anonymous OP 16w

When I’m saying as long as you’re healthy, I want you to be healthy. I mistakenly thought you took med specifically for gaining weight, so I said there is a much healthier way.

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Anonymous #8 16w

I corrected you and you called me insecure

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Anonymous OP 16w

Again, in an aggressive way.

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Anonymous OP 16w

The fact that you are yapping with me here already proved it. Just be yourself and don’t take it too serious

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Anonymous #8 16w

I’m being myself??

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Anonymous #11 16w

No one gaf

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Anonymous OP 16w

You said YOU were not healthy and still live the way u live take that as u will

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Anonymous #11 16w

I wasn’t healthy when I was skinny. I’ve never been able to run and never able to lift. Not at my weight now and not when I was skinny. Not sure what I’m supposed to take from that.

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Anonymous OP 16w

You do know that there is a middle ground right? I’m not saying go lift hella or wtvr just take care of yourself

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Anonymous #11 16w

I’m saying that my takeaway is that I am as healthy now as I was when I was thin.

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Anonymous OP 16w

Your not like “big big” your a little chubby that’s not the worst. It won’t take much to get you in better shape. Idk how u looked skinny so I won’t comment on that but both obese and anorexic have downsides

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Anonymous #11 16w

I’m fat enough to be told I eat donuts all day and should kms. This is how I looked before. I really like myself better now, although I want to get stronger.

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Anonymous OP 16w

Well u definitely shouldn’t kys. Nobody should have to feel the need to die. All I was trying to say in the og post is that we all need to do better with our health if we plan to live long(unless war kills us) and ik alot of the food in the USA is toxic or unhealthy but we can still all try to do better

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Anonymous #11 16w

I would just rather look the way I do now then the way I did then

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Anonymous OP 16w

I’m being respectful and ur still downvoting my stuff u can do whatever u want no one gaf. I’m be honest there is a healthy middle ground. chronic inflammation and metabolic changes, dramatically increasing the risk of serious, life-threatening conditions like heart disease, Type 2 diabetes, stroke, certain cancers, sleep apnea, fatty liver disease, osteoarthritis, and high blood pressure, leading to poor quality of life, disability, and premature death. All things that can happen if you are big

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Anonymous #11 16w

If I wasn’t big I’d be dead. So I think I’d rather be big actually

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Anonymous OP 16w

And if you get too big u can also die so idk what u want me to say. U upvote anyone who agrees with u and downvote anyone who disagrees. Go ahead and listen to the people feeding your delusion.

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Anonymous #11 16w

Ah yes. My delusion of being glad I didn’t kill my self at 19 and instead took meds that made me not kill my self. So delusional. Should’ve just stayed skinny and offed myself, would’ve been so much healthier, because I wouldn’t have been big and die from that. Suicide dosent kill you, being fat does!.

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Anonymous OP 16w

Keep being a victim and don’t learn from your mistakes 🤷🏽‍♀️ I stand by my og post and irl you couldn’t downvote someone who simply is saying facts. Like I said no one deserves to feel the need to die but being too big or small isn’t healthy

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Anonymous #11 16w

My mistakes of not killing my self??

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Anonymous #11 16w

Dude truly what mistake should I learn from be so fr with me

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Anonymous OP 16w

Bro are u slow. Show one time I said to hurt yourself. No one is saying to do that and u keep bringing it up. And your mistake of not being healthy whether that’s too skinny or too big.

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Anonymous #11 16w

bmi and furthermore “being too big or too small” is a concept coined in the 1970s meant to describe populations, not individuals. Additionally, health is more related to having balanced diet and exercise than body mass or makeup

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Anonymous #6 16w

Did I say bmi?

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Anonymous #11 16w

Bro are you? You’re on here saying being fat is bad and that I should “learn from my mistake” on a post about how I like my body, a body I ONLY HAVE because I took meds to not kill myself. By saying that it’s detrimental to me to be fat, you imply that I should’ve stayed skinny, in which case I would have offed myself

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Anonymous OP 16w

Omfg since u wanna keep saying u tried to kys so did I and I’m on meds for that too I went to inpatients and rehab stfu most ppl wanna die now. I’m saying we should be healthy so we life our best lives. And everyone saying otherwise is ok with your health declining. Healthy middle grounds exist and you aren’t too far away from it.

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Anonymous #11 16w

Omfg well be glad you didn’t gain weight on your meds. Would be a big mistake to gain weight. You’d be FAT 😱😱😱😱😱

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Can you stop harassing me please. You’ve already punched me down and made me feel shitty about myself by constantly saying that I’ll die. Leave me alone. I don’t care about how cool your life is. Leave me alone, and stop trying to get my attention

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Anonymous OP 16w

The point of me posting this was to say that I’m happy in who I am, and glad I’m alive, even though my meds made me gain weight. I don’t need to be told that I’ll die.

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I’ve attempted to disengage multiple times because being told that I’ll die is very detrimental to my mental health because I said multiple times that I want to work on my health. I’ve attempted to disengage from this conversation and you WILL NOT ALLOW ME TO. I BLOCKED YOU, you FOUND ME AGAIN ON ANOTHER ACCOUNT. I am blocking to disengage and try to walk away from this conversation because being told I will die from the side effects of the meds I take to not off myself is very detrimental to me

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Anonymous #2 16w

Thank you :)

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Anonymous #2 16w

Like I hate pulling the mental health card but I have recently developed ocd and being told that I’m going to die because of a side effect of a med I needed to not kill myself, and a side effect I DIDNT CHOOSE, is going to make me spiral, and I tried to block them to disengage from the conversation so I wouldn’t keep freaking myself out, because it wasn’t going anywhere, but they just found me again and kept on going

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Anonymous OP 16w

you don't even need OCD to be bothered by that but I'm sure it doesn't help. I'm glad you're here and love yourself enough to recognize the importance of having a future and being ready to take steps to live it to the fullest, whatever that may look like 💕

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Anonymous #2 16w

Thank you :) I really want to go to the gym more but I feel like I never have time, and the last time I tried I overdid it and almost threw up, (I have emetophobia so that freaked me out and I’m convinced it’ll happen again) I haven’t been doing many healthy things, but I have made a big step in trying to treat said newly developed ocd, and over the past year have basically retrained myself to breathe mostly w my nose vs my mouth wich is something really big as I’ve always been a mouth breather

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Anonymous #8 16w

Oh my god, this is so shitty. Who are some of you on here allow to be fully-fledged adults? Especially doing so without getting curb stomped for having this attitude irl?

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Anonymous OP 16w

Unfortunately “no fats no femmes” is still causing harm in our community

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Anonymous OP 16w

You’re right; they ARE harassing you. And it sucks that blocking them isn’t working. At this point, you can’t control them, but you can still disengage by not responding further. I’m sorry you’re getting so much shit for a positive post!!!

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Anonymous #11 16w

Stop moralizing health.

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And yet you sound so horribly unfulfilled that you resort to harassing people online.

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