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so i’ve been kinda questioning if i was ace bc ive had sex and kind of enjoyed it and i like masturbating but i was thinking about it this morning and i realized in my head i don’t think sexual things when doing that, its more of just a nice sensory thing
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Anonymous 4w

plenty of ace people have sex for that reason, it feels good. don’t need any sexual attraction for that. you aren’t any less valid as an ace person for having sex

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Anonymous 4w

like i’ve tried watching porn it does nothing it kinda just looks and feels gross. i liked having sex with my ex mostly just because it felt nice to be close to her and the feeling was okay but like i would’ve rather been cuddling and that would’ve felt just as nice, could it be that i’m just ace? idk kinda just wanna hear other people’s thoughts on this

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Anonymous 3w

Im the same way and i have also kind of been wondering about that so know youre not alone in this lol

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