LGBTQIA+ on Yik Yak | i’m so conflicted about my sexuality. i like the idea of men, right. i think about having a life with a man. but i do not get turned on by them at all. i don’t ever even think about kissing them much less sex. however i do think these things about women.

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LGBTQIA+ 1d

i’m so conflicted about my sexuality. i like the idea of men, right. i think about having a life with a man. but i do not get turned on by them at all. i don’t ever even think about kissing them much less sex. however i do think these things about women.

Anonymous 1d

sorry if this isn't very helpful, but liking conversations with men and their personalities doesn't even necessarily mean you're attracted to them. I've liked a lot of conversations with people I'm in no way attracted to.

Anonymous 1d

i’m a woman btw. i don’t know if it’s comphet but i like the idea of being with a man because i know my family wouldn’t disown me the way they would with a woman. but also i do enjoying having conversations with men and even their personalities. but physical intimacy with them kind of turns me off. but with women i think about wanting them romantically and sexually often. i actually find women very attractive and would also love a life with one.

Anonymous 1d

It sounds like you are biromantic homosexual

Anonymous

#1 1d

yeah i second this, this is platonic attraction towards men

Anonymous

OP 1d

I think you're probably gay. I'm sorry your family would disown you if you married a woman, but marrying a man doesn't sound like it would be generally fulfilling for you if you want more than a friend out of him. You deserve to live without fear of your family's response.

Anonymous

OP 1d

Hey I was in your position a while ago and I went as far to try to force myself to be romantic and sexual with men and I wouldn’t recommend that, it tanked my mental health. It can be very hard and I completely understand the fear of being disowned. It sadly comes down to having to pick yourself and loving yourself and your identity (which is a lot easier said then done). If you need anything please feel free to ask me any questions