Funny story to the contrary. I'm a trans guy, just moved, joined an lgbt-friendly church. Generally, ppl say I pass as cishet. Today, someone told me to give them my email to be added to the "LGBTQIA+ game night" list. He did not ask. He knew 💀
Was he queer bc I mean we just know. You know this.
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Anonymous4w
*People where I used to live say they generally thought I was cishet. The way others see my gender and sexuality seems to vary wildly and I really don't present myself differently in different contexts.
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Anonymous#14w
He was. I also have a long and rough history of being seen as cishet by other queer people 😭 including my friends in college, when we all lived in the explicitly gay dorm together. As in. Housing for only LGBTQ+ people. It was... funny but also 😭