well ok, I can be more descriptive! I think whether loving a family member romantically and/or sexually is considered queer is debatable and obviously it’s not officially considered as LGBTQIA+. I think because of the criminalization and the fringe case-ness of this kind of possible romantic and/or sexual interest that it can be a risky and psychologically taxing endeavor. also in general introducing romantic and/or sexual feelings in a relationship dynamic that didn’t have them before can compl