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hot take: the word “folx” is so silly bc “folks” was already gender-neutral
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Anonymous 13w

It irritates me so much, so performative

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Anonymous 13w

lava take, a lot of the newer terminology that claims to be gender neutral just feels like it’s for attention mostly because gender neutral terms already exist

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Anonymous 13w

not even a hot take it’s just true 😭

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Anonymous 13w

I will keep just using my normal terms in referring to people “yall, folks, they” like be so fr

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Anonymous 13w

i thought the x usage was proven to be started by like a 4 chan troll bc they made wxmen as a “only women have x chromosomes” or did i make that up

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Anonymous 13w

Worst part is it’s mainly cis white people using it like just use folks or yall goddamn

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Anonymous 13w

Same performative ick as “Latinx”

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Anonymous 13w

Lukewarm take fr. These new terms and neopronouns are so often performative bullshit and buzzwords that misdirect conversation to more bullshit

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Anonymous 13w

Exactlyyyyy

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Anonymous 13w

Folx is used on Twitter for the character limit. X is one character less than KS while sounding the same. Chill the fuck out lmao.

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Anonymous 13w

this is such a non issue like i’ve never even heard anyone say that

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Anonymous 13w

I feel the same when white people say Latinx 😭

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Anonymous 13w

agreed agreed agreed

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Anonymous 13w

I’ve never even heard of folx before, I guess I’m not as chronically online as I thought.

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Anonymous 13w

Yeah as a nonbinary person who mostly had trans and nonbinary friends… 99% of us don’t care. We call eachother “princess” or “boy” or whatever. Don’t call us femboys tho. Ever. That is a derogatory porn term. But if it’s not derogatory then most likely we won’t give a shit what you use.

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Anonymous 13w

I thought it was about saving time? Like how you would say xmas

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Anonymous 13w

Someone finally said it

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Anonymous 13w

I agree but I wish it was spelled as folx by default cuz I like it better loo

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Anonymous 13w

Also if I saw that, I would assume someone added an L in fox and just be confused

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Anonymous 13w

I like “folx” when I’m handwriting things because I enjoy shorthand and use þ, ð, dots over doubled consonants (coṁon for ‘common’), etc. It only works for the Folx brand outside of that 😭

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Anonymous 13w

Thank youuu omfg

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Anonymous 13w

I don’t even think that’s a hot take atp 😆

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Anonymous 13w

Who is going around saying this ..

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Anonymous 13w

No chill person has ever said folx unironically

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Anonymous 13w

I don’t think it’s meant to be gender neutral I think the spelling is meant to imitate a blacksent Which is really weird and disrespectful frankly

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Anonymous 13w

Everyone agrees not a hot take

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Actually gayest shit ive ever heard.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13w

straightest shit*

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 13w

lava take 2, the attempt to make spanish/latino “gender neutral” felt really disrespectful to them and their culture but im not spanish so idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 13w

The people that made latinx weren’t Spanish either

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13w

LMFAOOOOO

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 13w

Honestly wasnt even supposed to be a reply to them. Just a comment.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 13w

could be parallel thinking, but i think things like latinx and folx use ‘x’ like an x-variable in math/science

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 13w

I thought it was womxn to decenter men, never heard about the 4 chan thing but lowkey makes sense

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

i’m not sure and i have no proof so take what i say w a grain of salt pls 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13w

i was making a joke silly! all good

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Anonymous 13w

I believe they were saying they haven’t heard anyone complain about that issue

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13w

I took a class called queer latinidad and we read about Latinx and it’s origins/meaning and it’s actually a lot more nuanced. Some of it is a nod to Náhuatl like Xicano/chicano also the way Malcolm X used the letter. It’s not perfect but saying it’s only made by white people is wrong. Latine is a good alternative though :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 13w

I usually see/ hear gay white people or middle aged democratic women using it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 13w

agreed. white people forced that term onto the latin community when they literally dont even like it 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 13w

Deadass some of these newer terms are just for attention. Asking for McDonalds when we already got McDonald’s at home

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 13w

I never understood neopronouns personally. I’ve always been fine with just using they/them, not once have I thought “what else could I use?”

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 13w

I'm starting to become one of those old-head gays. like I will respect your identity full stop, though some of this feels like teenagers on tumblr who want to collect extra special, rare identities. Like why is there a trauma pride flag.. To be clear, I would never condemn this on the grounds that it makes our community look unserious or ridiculous. I can't stand that bc you know that cons will find something to make a problem of no matter how "mainstream" the community is. leopards, faces etc.

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 13w

That’s wild how every one of you are flipping on likely some strong stances you used to have in 2020🤦🏻‍♀️ not saying you personally but goddamn glad y’all are finally catching on and listening instead of bashing the people who’ve been calling it out this whole time

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Anonymous replying to -> total_liberation 13w

*lol and not for like gender reasons I just think it looks funny

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Anonymous replying to -> #25 13w

i don’t use twitter, and people have said it to me where there are not character limits

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 13w

I’m doing a minor in Latin American and Caribbean studies and we talk about this as being an issue but very sadly it has wrongly been considered the “correct” term despite the feelings of actual queer people. I actually prefer latine if its even going to be a necessary push (not that i think it is) but latino is just the general term anyway.

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Anonymous replying to -> #24 13w

In 2020 kids were getting bullied for the bug/bugself shit at my highschool. I don’t stand for bullying but somebody had to tell them kids to get off the computer and touch grass😭my stances never flipped either(yes I know you weren’t targeting directly us). That shit was weird then and it’s still weird now. Making and collecting labels like it’s cute or something

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Anonymous replying to -> #31 13w

Like I don’t get why cis people or even some binary trans people think we care that much. Like yeah people call me a girl all the time. I don’t identify as one but I’m not offended or anything. I don’t like it when people do it on purpose to hurt me but also I don’t mind when people do by accident or if they just assumed and I didn’t inform them yet.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Bummer get over it it’s a word it’s not offensive in literaly any way calm down

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Anonymous replying to -> #31 13w

femboy is derogatory?? under what context? /gen I’ve never heard it used in a gross way and know plenty of people who identify with that, mostly boys, trans or cis, who don’t want to conform to masculine norms

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 13w

I think neopronouns are an interesting way to explore gender but ones that are noun based just PMO

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Anonymous replying to -> #34 13w

for example bun/bunself or dog/dogself as opposed to neopronouns like ze/zer

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 13w

i’m sorry if you were under the impression i was not calm?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Real mature lol. You can’t just report stuff you disagree with

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Anonymous replying to -> #25 13w

Grow up.

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Anonymous replying to -> #24 13w

i’ve always felt the same about neopronouns(they’re not something i understand, and the noun based ones are a bit silly, but to each their own, i’m not going to tell someone what to call themselves) and i feel like most people have as well, people in 2020 were just getting relentlessly bullies for having a little whimsy and that’s what people were upset about, you’re being intentionally obtuse so you can have your gotcha moment

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 13w

dude ppl at my college use it in emails and shit, unfortunately it’s not just online

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Anonymous replying to -> #32 13w

it originates as a category of porn i’m pretty sure, i know people who also use that label for themselves tho. i don’t know if it’s inherently “derogatory” unless used in a negative context ofc, but i can see how some people would be made to feel uncomfortable being called it unprompted due to its historical usage

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Anonymous replying to -> #36 13w

Really? I’ve always heard it just used as the opposite of tomboy. Im not sure it’s possible for porn to be the “origin” of a word, people would have to know what it means for it to make sense, and it’s just two words stuck together, but Im sure it’s a category. Worlds better than “she-male” or stuff like that imo

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Anonymous replying to -> #32 13w

yeah i guess maybe i should say i think that’s where it was popularized originally, could be wrong tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #36 13w

ah yeah I suppose that makes sense

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Anonymous replying to -> #32 13w

So “femboy” is used for porn that includes a trans woman. It also has been used in recent years to refer to trans men or afab nonbinary people.

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Anonymous replying to -> #32 13w

Like calling someone a femboy is similar to calling a trans person a “cross dresser”

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Anonymous replying to -> #32 13w

It was widely used in the past but not as much now. As a disabled person I would liken it to how disabled people used to be called “invalids”. It’s not a slur but it has a derogatory history used to keep a group down and literally invalidate them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #31 13w

oh interesting, honestly i didn’t know that it was originally a term for trans women. i thought it was like a subby fem male thing

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Anonymous replying to -> #27 13w

Bro deleted ever good argument

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 13w

i didn’t report anything, sorry that happened

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Anonymous replying to -> #31 13w

That does make a lot of sense, I guess I’m just thinking about it in a context where it correctly refers to the person, instead of going against their identity. Kind of like how cross dressing can be an accurate description of specific people, even though it’s inaccurate and offensive when referring to trans people.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 13w

Real like use whatever you want but I feel like it’s REALLY unnecessary, one of my favorite ones was a company that used “humxns” like a) “human” is already p gender-neutral imo and b) “people” exists

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 13w

It’s just “womyn” but the modern version

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 13w

How can you hear spelling?

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Anonymous replying to -> #29 13w

Question: is just "Latin" also correct?

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Anonymous replying to -> #40 13w

If you’re referring to the people of latin america as latin then no. Latin people are Italian or Mediterranean.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

I thought womxn was a poor attempt at neutralizing a word specifically meant to not be neutral

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Anonymous replying to -> #39 13w

Whats womyn

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Anonymous replying to -> #42 13w

It was a rad fem thing in the 90’s

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

wait I’m Italian and Greek and I’ve never considered myself Latin?¿

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

i think you’re conflating the latin language with latin people

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