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the only ppl who think being queer is a “choice” are “straight” ppl who r homophobic and i honestly think it’s cuz they’re just gay and have so much internalized homophobia that it’s easier for them to say it’s a choice and choose not to be gay
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Anonymous 8w

I have had bisexual/pansexual ppl tell me that I choose to not be attracted to men as a lesbian

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Anonymous 8w

this girl I knew told me being gay was a choice so I asked her if being straight was also a choice & she said yes. still wrong but I respected the consistency in her beliefs

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Anonymous 8w

Today my not-so-much-anymore Christian friend told me that even though she understood being gay itself was not a choice, she still “disagrees” with their decision to embrace their identities

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Anonymous 8w

100% believe this too. Bc for ME I can't just switch and magically wanna eat coochie or be with a woman romantically…but if they think they can(which means they thought about it) then I feel like they are “choosing” to not be gay bc the Bible n brainwashing

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

her parents are homophobic & according to one of her friends she did eventually breakdown realizing she was bi

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