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Do any other trans men not like their new libido :( I’m asexual and I kind of hate it
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Anonymous 2w

can you define being asexual? Im not trying to doubt ur identity but the definition i had in my head doesn’t correlate with having a libido and im curious where i was wrong.

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Anonymous 2w

Unfortunate side affect of being an Ace man, it’s easy to get physically triggered with no real desire. Take it as a weird form of gender verification I guess lol?

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Anonymous 2w

I went through the same thing, in my experience it is really intense for the first few weeks-months, then it gets more manageable (but still higher libido than before hrt). My advice, it gets worse if you try to ignore or push through the horny, just masturbate when you need to (ik it might make you feel gross but at least you will no longer be horny for a while). I hated the higher libido at first but I’ve kinda made peace with it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Asexuality refers to sexual attraction rather than a sex drive. It’s fully possible for an asexual person to experience libido, and it’s even possible for us to be interested in sex! You just don’t feel a sexual interest in people.

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