Anonymous #1 1w

That’s what I am saying. It promotes keeping victims silent, and I truly feel like the post was giving since a pan man was bad to you and you spoke about it, now I’m going to shame you for saying something

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Anonymous #2 1w

They did mention my post, and it’s weird that you are saying I’m doing the same thing that they did

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Anonymous OP 1w

Show me where they mentioned you or your post specifically. And honesty if you faced the rampant homophobia that this person is you’d probably crash out too.

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Anonymous #2 1w

It was posted literally a few minutes after and in my post I said I felt like the situation was creepy and they turned into lesbians view us a creepy (which I mentioned being a lesbian in the post)

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Anonymous OP 1w

The creepy towards lesbians thing has been more than one post

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Anonymous OP 1w

Yours may have been the straw that broke the camel’s back for that person, but there have been a few recently

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Anonymous #4 1w

Should lesbians just be quiet? I have noticed if I ever bring up how a man makes me uncomfortable whether that be through what he says or does to me, that it gets turned into you are an evil lesbian. (Especially when it is a queer man being creepy). Bc even on my original post I was getting dms saying that they hope the pansexual man rapes me. Is the best way to not be panphobic/biphobic to just let men have sex with you?

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Anonymous OP 1w

No? I never said that at all! I’m sorry people have been awful to you and you didn’t deserve any of those messages. But all I said was that there have been posts in the past saying that pansexual men are all creepy towards lesbians. I really don’t think this post was a targeted attack on your post.

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Anonymous OP 1w

I didn’t say anything like that lesbians should be quiet or that they should let men have sex with them. I don’t believe any of that. I just genuinely don’t think this post was an attack on yours

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Anonymous #4 1w

But this post wasn’t made after any of those post bc I have gone through the feed and mine was the only one that mentioned lesbians and pansexual men that I saw from the past week. This post was made so shortly after I posted it, and it matches with some of the dms I got. Including that, “you are responsible for making pansexual ppl feel bad about their sexuality, you should be raped”. With the hate that I got it felt too targeted to not say anything at all

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Anonymous #2 1w

The way people were quoting and reacting to that post kind of said it all tho tbh, there were ppl straight up calling op a liar for no apparent reason other than they just didn’t want to believe it, i dont doubt there was another post being rude & disrespectful but two things can be true at once

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Anonymous #5 1w

Thank you! Like the whole reason I thought it was bc of how horrible people were to me on the original post and the worst things weren’t even commented they were dmed to me

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Anonymous #5 1w

Like if I have learned one thing about this whole situation it would be if you get assaulted by a queer man as a lesbian you need to keep quiet. You won’t be believed. You will be vilified. You will get death and rape threats. It is better to stay quiet

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Anonymous OP 1w

I’m so incredibly sorry that people have been so awful to you on here after you’ve shared a terrible situation you went through. I don’t know how any of these people saying nasty stuff found it appropriate to respond in the way they did, it’s just abhorrent.

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