We forget accountability is also a part recognizing someone’s humanity and their capabilities to improve. No, me telling another gay man to reflect on what he said and how it was potentially bigoted is not a homophobic thing to do. In fact, it is because I actually have faith in you to do better. That ego can keep us stagnant in times where we most need change

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thank you

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Exactly!

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Periodt, you ate with this one

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This absolutely applies to cis queer women (and cis women in general)

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Preach

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I know you’re vaguing about me so I gotta ask what specifically did i do bc y’all never tell me

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I’m a major ally and the only time I’ve gotten flack is from a white gay man 😂

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Exactly! Like all of the hate lesbians get from the lgbt community in general. It’s honestly so disheartening

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