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Queer people, I urge you to stop making excuses for the people oppressing you. Yes, that white gay man is still a bigot. Someone’s status as a minority of any kind does not entitle them to spread the same hate used to hurt others.
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Anonymous 7w

We forget accountability is also a part recognizing someone’s humanity and their capabilities to improve. No, me telling another gay man to reflect on what he said and how it was potentially bigoted is not a homophobic thing to do. In fact, it is because I actually have faith in you to do better. That ego can keep us stagnant in times where we most need change

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Anonymous 7w

thank you

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Anonymous 7w

Exactly!

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Anonymous 7w

Periodt, you ate with this one

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Anonymous 7w

This absolutely applies to cis queer women (and cis women in general)

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Anonymous 7w

Preach

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Anonymous 7w

I know you’re vaguing about me so I gotta ask what specifically did i do bc y’all never tell me

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Anonymous 7w

I’m a major ally and the only time I’ve gotten flack is from a white gay man 😂

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Anonymous 7w

Exactly! Like all of the hate lesbians get from the lgbt community in general. It’s honestly so disheartening

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 7w

Hey, this isn’t about you. I do not have any idea what the fuck you’re talking about. Jesus Christ.

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 7w

drop an insult and the owner will pick it up

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 7w

Dude what? You know cis queer women can be poc? What are you talking about

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

poc can also be bigoted, for the record

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

Oh yeah for sure. But that still doesn’t make this comment sensical 😭 atp just say everyone like what

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

Cis queer women tend to be some of the biggest culprits of hating trans men and transmascs

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 7w

No it’s not.

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 6w

It goes for anyone in our community who’s a bigot and oppressing others. That’s the point of the post. You didn’t have to make sweeping generalizations about cis queer women hating trans men. The most hate I’ve gotten for being a trans man in this community has been from other men tbh.

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 6w

It really depends but the most hate i’ve gotten is other trans men specifically. The gnc ones don’t trust you if you’re not 100% gnc 24/7, and the conformists hate it when you so much as wear pink on breast cancer awareness day (seriously something i got pointfully misgendered for)

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 6w

LITERALLY what I was trying to say. I don’t get the point of specifically calling out “cis queer women” it’s giving misogyny

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 6w

You just hate women dawg

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 6w

Keep downvoting me it just makes you look more misogynistic ☠️☠️

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 5w

No, actually cis straight men are the biggest haters of trans people and cis queer women are statistically the most accepting. So you got it opposite. Stop scapegoating lesbians. It’s old. And it’s incorrect.

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