
We forget accountability is also a part recognizing someone’s humanity and their capabilities to improve. No, me telling another gay man to reflect on what he said and how it was potentially bigoted is not a homophobic thing to do. In fact, it is because I actually have faith in you to do better. That ego can keep us stagnant in times where we most need change
It goes for anyone in our community who’s a bigot and oppressing others. That’s the point of the post. You didn’t have to make sweeping generalizations about cis queer women hating trans men. The most hate I’ve gotten for being a trans man in this community has been from other men tbh.
It really depends but the most hate i’ve gotten is other trans men specifically. The gnc ones don’t trust you if you’re not 100% gnc 24/7, and the conformists hate it when you so much as wear pink on breast cancer awareness day (seriously something i got pointfully misgendered for)