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not that many tbh
185 upvotes, 13 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in LGBTQIA+. "not that many tbh"
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Anonymous 5w

I’m a trans man. I’ve been sexually assaulted. I’d like to experience joy/love pls :(

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Anonymous 5w

THANK YOU! There’s a lot of nuance.

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Anonymous 4w

hot take: men who think certain women deserve it but aren’t active predators (as in lie about it), are sometimes one step to the right of men who passively enjoy/consume/encourage predation

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Anonymous 4w

Not sure what this was in response to, but to back up this post: CJ Pascoe wrote about “r*pe discourse,” where men who fall closer to the right side of the spectrum in the pic use their societal views (top bar in the pic) to push blame onto worse ppl and get away with stuff that’s still bad. Eg, a guy might be harassing a girl over text, but he’ll say “I’m not one of those crazed evil men who SAs ppl, those guys are awful,” separating himself from a group he’s not actually that far removed from

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Anonymous 5w

It’s alright I accepted that awhile ago

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Anonymous 5w

Do you have to be a hero and literally risk your life to be a decent person? Or can you just be good intentioned and kind?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

getting a woman out of a situation that she’s uncomfortable is almost never risking your life, and if it is a situation that dangerous call the cops

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

or just some really buff dude you know that’d probably be better

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Im going to give you a personal experience where a man prevented me from getting r@ped and how little he did. My freshman year of college, I went to a frat party bc I was trying to be straight (only hanging out with straight ppl, dating only men). I met a frat boy at this party and he drugged me, I had half of a Truly and I blacked out. The rest of this is from the photos my guy friend took that night. He saw me at the party and noticed how the frat boy was propping me up and basically keeping

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Me standing. My friend walked up to the frat boy who was with me and started talking to me and insisted he took a picture with me and the frat boy. He stayed next to me the rest of the night. The frat boy kept trying to get him to leave and at one point tried to take me home. My friend followed us home with his camera out the entire time. The only reason I was brought back to my place that night is bc my male friend followed us home and the next morning called me and asked what i remembered

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

He filled in the holes in my memory. Nothing he did was crazy or putting himself in a dangerous situation, he was just persistent. I know that night would have had a different ending if my friend didn’t stay with me. That’s how simple it is to be the hero. Just be vigilant and if you see something try innocent ways to insert yourself into the situation

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

So glad you had a friend like that to save you ❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

I’m a trans girl and I’ve also been SA’d. I have PTSD from it. I will let you know It does get easier ❤️‍🩹 and my therapist helped a lot.

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