(trans person here) the only thing i can really think of is someone who desperately wants biological kids and has strong genital preferences; i don't consider that transphobic. personally i have no interest in ever dating someone who says they aren't attracted to trans people no matter what their reasoning may be

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parts prefence does not hold up as a reason to exclude trans people in the entirety as bottom surgery exists

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nice argument #2 why don’t you explain why that preference exists?

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like genital prerefrence is fine, but also doesn’t account for all trans people

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but being trans has no relation to attractiveness. there are trans people that look literally every type of way. not to mention that yeah if you dont find someone attractive you dont have to date em. that also applies to cis people

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i saw you comment 4, also don’t know why it was removed, and i got some critiques on it. first of all the hormone part? that doesn’t make sense. there are plenty of people who will have to take medications all their lives. hormones are no different than that just medication. hell my cis mom and I are literally on the same exact meds. also wdym cant relate to kids? there are plenty of cis people who also cant relate to kids.

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It’s mostly a parts preference, which you can’t control, some people are just straight up transphobic though

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Idk dawg, you’ll never be satisfied with the responses. There are folks who do not like trans people, whether they’re conservative or queer or whatever and won’t date them. Shit, I’ve been rejected for being trans and it felt bad, but no amount of anger or yik yak posting is gonna satisfy me or change them, so I’m moving on and focusing on shit and ppl that matter. Hope you can too

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My comment was removed for some reason - but basically, it’s usually a number of things that contribute to it.

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Unfortunately you cannot control people’s personal preferences and call them transphobic bc they differ from your own

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