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LGBTQIA+ 1w
the idea of sex makes me feel so sick but i don’t think im asexual because the concept of someday being intimate with a partner is something id love, but the idea of sex makes me feel light headed and ill and idk what to do anymore 😭😭
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Anonymous 1w

sorry divas i didn’t know where else to post this i genuinely feel so alone in this and like dont know if this is even something i need to bring up in (mostly trauma) therapy???

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I wanna gonna ask if you have any trauma relating but if yes talking about it in therapy may help

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

i like don’t know if i do 😭 i had nightmares about like someone having sex with me as a child (which has been mentioned in therapy) but like idk if they were just nightmares or not 🤠

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I feel like unless you were exposed to something like that as a kid you wouldn’t have dreams/nightmares of something you didn’t know about yet

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

right which makes sense (and is exactly what my therapist said 🤠)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

idk if you’ve heard of hyposexual/hyposexuality but it’s a trauma response that can develop from that kind of thing. sounds like that’s what you’re experiencing & you should bring it up with them

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

okay ty diva!!! i’ll bring it up next week 🫶🏻

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