In my experience it ended up being a bit of both. You may want to be viewed as a woman and/or be a woman, you may not want to be viewed as a man/be a man, or maybe somewhere in between or in a different direction entirely. That’ll require thinking about pronouns and other ways you’re referred to as, and that’ll take time. But until then, trying things to look less masculine or more feminine may help find a gender expression you’re more comfortable with!

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wait I feel this. Like I don’t have a desire to be a woman, but I want to look as fem as possible to the point where people call me pretty and beautiful, not handsome

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