gender is hard and nobody is doing it right. everyone is doing it wrong and it doesn’t matter. focus on what feels best for you, what makes you feel the best you can in your skin. whatever label, whatever pronouns, whatever presentation. mix and match em, get weird with it. as long as you’re not policing anyone else’s identity, you’re good

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i’d say the only wrong you can do here is not accept yourself. i’m polygender and trans, but that doesn’t mean that all genderqueer people are trans. these terms are for you to become more comfortable in your own skin, so do whatever feels right! and remember, hate can fuel doubt, and the best way to combat that is to treat yourself gently and listen to yourself! i know the feeling of thinking i might just be cis, but then i remember that i’m really just comfortable in my queerness :)

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like i feel like i shouldn’t be genderqueer bc i don’t think i fit in/like it feels almost like i’m wronging trans ppl

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