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Really trying to accept that some ppl will simply never understand that: masculinity/femininity≠dominance/submission≠sexual positions. Can we stop asking “who’s the man in the relationship?” or voice our assumptions on it? It’s weird.
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Anonymous 5w

I’d also add that not every relationship even has a masc and a fem in it. My partner and I are both masculine men and half the time people don’t even believe we are in a relationship.

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Anonymous 5w

Not to say you can’t necessarily have your own assumptions but also like…can we please stop asking that question just carelessly

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

No literally that too

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Like not to take away from your post, I absolutely agree and I mean it’s something that my bf and I have faced since we started dating

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I agree

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