yes, being a chaser is inherently bad bc it involves fetishizing someone.

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the whole thing with chasers is that they don't see us as people, they see us as a fetish. we aren't human beings to them, we're just feeding their trans fetish. i wouldnt say this scenario is really chaser-feely, u just have preferences that you follow.

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Would you still respect and want the trans man if he got bottom surgery or do you only want him for his pussy?

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Anonymous #3 2w

not all “preferences” are neutral, they can be rooted in bigoted and fetishistic beliefs.

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Anonymous #2 2w

yes, but if it's JUST a preference, then it's harmless. the intent matters for that and we dont know their intent. hopefully they respond abt it soon and it gets known 🤷

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Anonymous #3 2w

Hi I would like to clarify this isn’t my preference 😭 it’s a friends and it made me unclear on their morals as a person and so I wanted to ask others abt it

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Anonymous #4 2w

This isn’t abt me, it’s abt a friend who I just found out has this preference and it made me question their morals

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Anonymous OP 2w

My answer would be that as long as the person still wanted trans men who had bottom surgery and just like didn’t exclusively want trans men who had pussies. Bc like if this person only wants trans men who have a pussy then yes they are absolutely a chaser. My best friend is a trans man who runs into men (I’m not saying this person is a man, just using my friends experience as an example) like this all the time and it makes him feel horrible about himself

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Anonymous #5 2w

That’s what I thought, thanks for sharing!!

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