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Thoughts on big age gap relationships?
#poll
Bad regardless
Okay if it’s gay
Okay regardless
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Anonymous 1d

bait as hell, but I’ll bite. Nothing wrong with it PROVIDED they’re both consenting adults who aren’t being taken advantage of, and there’s no power dynamic that allows the older partner to control the younger partner

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Anonymous 1d

I know it’s not really my business but I don’t like how normalized it feels, especially within mlm relationships. No I do not want a “daddy.” I want a man my own age and the fact that people have called that desire strange bothers me

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Anonymous 1d

Depends. 30+50, yeah okay. 20+40 weird.

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Anonymous 1d

If it’s two consenting adults, who cares?

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Anonymous 23h

None of these options explain how I feel, which is that regardless of sexuality I think it’s often bad news but can be okay for some people in some circumstances

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Anonymous 1d

Its okay if they r older, younger age gaps r iffy

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Anonymous 1d

I think if everyone involved is over the age of 25 then who cares, everyone is a fully formed adult and able to make their own decisions. if one person is under 25 then I do think that relationship is probably a little sketchy and it's likely there is an inherent imbalance in that relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Sorry i wasn’t meaning to post this as bait lol- i feel like it’s really normalized for gay ppl so i was genuinely curious if ppl thought there was a difference when the gender dynamic is equal. I appreciate the opinions tho - I’m uncomfortable with it myself i think but idk if i think age gaps by themselves are bad

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

It’s normalized as hell for straight people too, you just gotta be rich

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

True true

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

you see a lot of age gap relationships in every sexuality I think. the ones where the older men are rich are the more glamorized versions of age gap relationships, plus its just the assumption people tend to make if they see a young woman with an older man. but I've met a lot of girls, myself included, who were with an older man who didn't have money

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

I have too, don’t get me wrong, it’s just not as normalized. It occurs a lot, but is still viewed suspiciously relative to a similar age relationship

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