Like, full disclosure in the most direct way possible, I practice everyday in the shower. When I’m cleaning down there I always go deep with as many fingers as possible and am sure to spread it as much as I can as well. It can hurt the first few times but after a short while it’s genuinely great. Also you can always just use a good old fashioned dildo or safe object. Be sure to use lube though, always
Sure! So, you’ll want to make sure you don’t eat fatty or greasy foods for a while beforehand— I usually go 2 days just to make sure. You’ll want to make sure you clean yourself out well beforehand— you can use an enema bulb (I’ll show a picture if you’re not familiar), bidet, or you can relieve yourself prior to a shower and make sure you’re able to clean out during it.
When it comes to actually using a toy or bottoming, GO SLOW AND USE LOTS OF LUBE!!! The anus is very sensitive and can easily be a source of pain if you’re not careful. Not to scare you as it’s not exactly “poke and pain!” but it is a very sensitive area and you want to make sure you’re gentle when you’re learning about it your body.
I personally love the sensation quite a lot but I took a lot of time to learn about what feels good and what doesn’t. Definitely, DEFINITELY use protection. The anus is prone to microtearing (you wouldn’t even notice this, it just happens) and can be a more vulnerable area for unprotected intercourse.