I think definitionally I’d be a demi-boy but I just say I’m a trans man bc it easier than having to explain my whole gender to someone new. Also definitionally I’m probably considered pan bc I don’t care the gender of my partner, I care about how they are as a person but I just say I’m queer. I’ve seen too much discourse about labels and im just tired of it so I go with what’s the easiest for me but irl none of my friends give a shit and they’re supportive so that’s what matters imo

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I’d technically say I’m pansexual but I say bi (if I mention that I’m queer at all) because it’s just more easily understood to the general public.

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I myself ID as a trans gay man, but it’s not really what I am. If I were to realllly get into it, I’m pangender and pansexual, but I’m pre-transition and don’t feel comfortable exploring my attraction to women yet. This has definitely hurt some people’s perceptions of the queer community, but most people have been understanding and learn a bit about what being closeted means on a personal level

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First question of the discourse - does this hypothetical queer person exist

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Mostly because people have such a narrow view on gender so I go the easiest route to avoid confrontation

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i feel more pan than bi, but i tell people i’m bi if i think (1) somebody’s not going to care enough about learning what that is that it’s worth my emotional work or (2) somebody’s going to think i think i’m ‘above’ bi people bc i use that label.

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Can you rephrase that please? I feel like I understand but I don’t 😭

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