lesbian isolation is real when you're with a group of straight women and they're talking about their sex lives and i just sit their quietly because i have nothing to contribute that wouldn't make them uncomfortable.
Yeha like the "dont you hate it when *man thing*? Oh wait you wouldnt get it hahah" or "youll never understand *smth ab dicks* cuz youre a lesbian huh" and the right answer is never well my gf is trans
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Anonymous1w
yeah especially if you're still closeted and just sit there feeling awkward😭😭
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Anonymous1w
this is my "only hangs out with bi people" showing but do they fr get uncomfortable at even the broad mention of dating stuff?
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Anonymous1w
No literally. I need to make some more lesbian friends
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Anonymous#11w
used to be in the closet, came out thinking i’d feel better. now i just feel even more hyperaware of the fact that i don’t fit in with most women and do in fact make them uncomfortable.
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Anonymous#21w
i live in a pretty conservative area but have found people who despite not being conservative still have that awkward ignorance of not knowing what to say at the mention of anywhere queer. so imo it’s honestly best to just avoid making things awkward by accepting the isolation.