My conclusion to if MEN can be lesbians is that: IM NOT ATTRACTED TO MEN SO WHAT FUCKING BOX WOULD I BE IN???? Why are we changing the term lesbian to mean non-man loving non-man when it means women loving women MY SEXUALITY DOESNT EVOLVE AROUND MEN!!
If ur not focusing on men then why are you making posts about the like five trans guys who call themselves lesbians. Also lesbian is queer attraction to women. Nonbinary people can also be lesbians
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Anonymous12w
how is a sexuality that is “non men loving non men” focusing on men??
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Anonymous12w
“Trans men feel identity in lesbian spaces” okayyyyy?????? I feel safe in queer spaces too ?? That doesn’t make u a lesbian bc u like hanging out with lesbians gtfo
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Anonymous12w
Gotta love when the LGBT community supports men invading wlw and lesbian spaces, make that make sense lmao. Are cis men accepted into lesbian spaces? No?
Okay so trans men shouldn’t be either if you actually see them as men
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Anonymous12w
Lesbian has honestly always meant that, lesbian spaces are some of the first places western feminist identity philosophy came from, with the whole “gender is a performance” idea.
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Anonymous12w
I agree 100% as a fem lesbian.
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Anonymous#112w
I NEED BOOBS GODDAMIT WHATS NOT CLICKING HOE
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AnonymousOP12w
I am actually allowed to critique men as a lesbian, saying I’m focusing on men as a “jab” is a little homophobic if u think about it…. Telling me… a LESBIAN can’t speak about men who are just changing the meaning of a label is ridiculous
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AnonymousOP12w
It’s okay to say ur queer
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AnonymousOP12w
yk plenty of trans guys have tits right?
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Anonymous12w
that’s exactly my point,,, any gender can have boobs but that’s the reason OP says they’re lesbian for??
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Anonymous#212w
“That’s the reason” you know damn well that’s not the only reason 😭 I wouldn’t date a man, I want to say GIRLFRIEND, WIFE, im attracted to femininity I’m only attracted to WOMENNNNNNN we are just changing the meaning of lesbian
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AnonymousOP12w
So a butch lesbian woman with top surgery isn’t a lesbian to you because she dosent have boobs
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AnonymousOP12w
Not all women are feminine and not all women have boobs
Just because someone considers themselves a part of a group that you’re compatible with romantically doesn’t mean you’re obligated to date them
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AnonymousOP12w
So are butches who prefer to be called husband and boyfriend and are masculine not lesbians now?
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Anonymous#112w
Oh my god I’m being villainized for liking titties 😭😭😭yes butch lesbians with top surgery are lesbians
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AnonymousOP12w
Well you seem to have it out for masculine lesbians. And nonbinary lesbians
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AnonymousOP12w
also just like,,, so what? not every lesbian is gonna be attracted to the same types of people. if you’re not attracted to trans guys and nb people good for you. more of them for us
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Anonymous#112w
I don’t I love them and we dance in the club together with our gfs
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Anonymous#212w
I agree!! But trans men are men so they can’t be lesbians
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AnonymousOP12w
hate to break it to you but trans men have been identifying and participating in lesbian spaces for decades 🤷🏻
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Anonymous#512w
y’all really love bringing cis men into this convo when they have nothing to do with it
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Anonymous#212w
that’s because for decades they were not seen as men. they were considered lesbians because people viewed them as women still.
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Anonymous#712w
ok and? they were still lesbians and welcomed into the community and were often acknowledged as men by their fellow lesbian peers
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AnonymousOP12w
girl I feel you and tbh no one in real life says anything other than women loving women