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My conclusion to if MEN can be lesbians is that: IM NOT ATTRACTED TO MEN SO WHAT FUCKING BOX WOULD I BE IN???? Why are we changing the term lesbian to mean non-man loving non-man when it means women loving women MY SEXUALITY DOESNT EVOLVE AROUND MEN!!
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Anonymous 12w

If ur not focusing on men then why are you making posts about the like five trans guys who call themselves lesbians. Also lesbian is queer attraction to women. Nonbinary people can also be lesbians

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Anonymous 12w

how is a sexuality that is “non men loving non men” focusing on men??

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Anonymous 12w

“Trans men feel identity in lesbian spaces” okayyyyy?????? I feel safe in queer spaces too ?? That doesn’t make u a lesbian bc u like hanging out with lesbians gtfo

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Anonymous 12w

Gotta love when the LGBT community supports men invading wlw and lesbian spaces, make that make sense lmao. Are cis men accepted into lesbian spaces? No? Okay so trans men shouldn’t be either if you actually see them as men

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Anonymous 12w

Lesbian has honestly always meant that, lesbian spaces are some of the first places western feminist identity philosophy came from, with the whole “gender is a performance” idea.

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Anonymous 12w

I agree 100% as a fem lesbian.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

I NEED BOOBS GODDAMIT WHATS NOT CLICKING HOE

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

I am actually allowed to critique men as a lesbian, saying I’m focusing on men as a “jab” is a little homophobic if u think about it…. Telling me… a LESBIAN can’t speak about men who are just changing the meaning of a label is ridiculous

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

It’s okay to say ur queer 🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

yk plenty of trans guys have tits right?

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Anonymous 12w

that’s exactly my point,,, any gender can have boobs but that’s the reason OP says they’re lesbian for??

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

“That’s the reason” you know damn well that’s not the only reason 😭 I wouldn’t date a man, I want to say GIRLFRIEND, WIFE, im attracted to femininity I’m only attracted to WOMENNNNNNN we are just changing the meaning of lesbian

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

So a butch lesbian woman with top surgery isn’t a lesbian to you because she dosent have boobs

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Not all women are feminine and not all women have boobs Just because someone considers themselves a part of a group that you’re compatible with romantically doesn’t mean you’re obligated to date them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

So are butches who prefer to be called husband and boyfriend and are masculine not lesbians now?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Oh my god I’m being villainized for liking titties 😭😭😭yes butch lesbians with top surgery are lesbians

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Well you seem to have it out for masculine lesbians. And nonbinary lesbians

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

also just like,,, so what? not every lesbian is gonna be attracted to the same types of people. if you’re not attracted to trans guys and nb people good for you. more of them for us

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

I don’t I love them and we dance in the club together with our gfs

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

I agree!! But trans men are men so they can’t be lesbians

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

hate to break it to you but trans men have been identifying and participating in lesbian spaces for decades 🤷🏻

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

y’all really love bringing cis men into this convo when they have nothing to do with it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

that’s because for decades they were not seen as men. they were considered lesbians because people viewed them as women still.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 12w

ok and? they were still lesbians and welcomed into the community and were often acknowledged as men by their fellow lesbian peers

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

girl I feel you and tbh no one in real life says anything other than women loving women

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