Not to mention that I feel like there’s a lot of northerners/city folk who will assume that southerners/rural folk are conservative and small minded just bc of where they come from and how they look. I imagine that it’s extremely disheartening to be driven away by people who won’t take the time to actually get to know who you are and what you believe.
I’m from Alabama and it is really discouraging and difficult to see people say awful things about how people from where I’m from deserve to die in natural disasters or that we’re all dumb and racist hicks because of where we happen to live. Also you’re not going to persuade people by saying things like that, especially in the south.