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after years of dating men thinking im just bi then finding out im a lesbian, i have no idea how to date women. im stuck on the societal expectation of one person has to be more feminine and ive always been insecure abt it, how do i start to rewire that?
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Anonymous 4w

As a lesbian in a masc/masc relationship no one has to be the more feminine one and even in those lesbian relationships society judges them, just try to make more queer friends, try to live for yourself because everyone already seems to have opinions on us regardless

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Anonymous 4w

surrounded yourself by other lesbians and bi women that actively date women itll help unpack all that

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